How old are you? how long you been married. Are you black or white?

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Ramón 5 months ago

I'm 34 been married for 5yrs and I'm white

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Jen 5 months ago

Didn't you consider love making?

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Ramón 5 months ago

Tell me I'm crazy, but it seems there is a bit of regret on your part for not going further. As you said you, "can't stop thinking about that night" and "His long black fingers made me feel so good."

I suggest you stop feeling guilty for feeling so good. Take command and own your personal sexual independence.

My wife is having an affair with my best friend. At first I was concerned maybe even angry. But also incredibly aroused. To help me understand my situation my wife suggested I see a sex therapist.

The therapist, a woman, said she sees nothing wrong with my feelings of arousal. She says it's normal to be aroused and excited for my wife's pleasure experiences with my best friend. She has asked me deep and probing questions, with extensive conversations exploring of my feelings.

She said my wife is just simply on a journey of discovering her own sexual self and declaring her own personal sexual independence. She says I should be proud of her and in fact I should be happy for her. She says I should also be proud of myself as well. That my wife trusted and loved me enough to know everything and that I would accept her for who she is in her journey of self-discovery and in making me a true and loving cuckold.

My therapist told me that I am not alone in these feeling and that many men are cuckolds and enjoy being cuckolds. All of this is normal, she said, just like any other sexual preference. She gave me reading material that quote doctors who have done extensive studies.

She told me two things are important to remember. (1) My wife's experience and discovery is of utmost importance. (2) I am not being left behind. She is bringing me along. The proof is in her trust in me to honestly know everything. -FH

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FH 3 weeks ago

You can be like "Hopefully these feelings goes away..." all you wish. But the feelings and needfulness will never leave you. Recognize your needs and claim them. To hell with guilt, claim your pleasures. You deserve more and cuckold your husband. He will eventually thank you.

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Allie 1 week ago