My wife shares too much

My wife and I have been married for 12 years. Shes 32 and Im 39. He have two kids under the age of 8. We are both attractive and have stayed fit.

My wife can be quite controlling and very difficult to talk to. She is prone to turning everything around to her benefit. Now before anyone says “Sure she is. What if we ask her?” We have some very close friends and on more than a few occasions both the men and women have said she is “controlling” and “only is happy when she gets her way”.

Throughout the 12 years I have engaged in chatting with other women. I did this so I could have some sexual excitement. Whenever Ive tried it with my wife she not only shuts me down but has made comments that have hurt.
>”Dirty talk” I cant do that with anyone!” Implying she has been asked to do it before.
>”Blowjobs” Ugh! My exbf loved them and I hated giving them all the time.

Stuff like that. So I never physically cheated but did carry on sexting relationships. Honestly there was never an emotional attachment of any kind. Text back and forth about our favorite sexual things, get excited and that was that.

A couple of years ago we were going through a rough patch and I was traveling a lot. She ended up starting to fall for a guy 20 years older than her. While I was away they would meet for coffee and talk. Thats it, talk (they did exchange a few “naughty pics” dick pics and tits pics). They would talk about everything and anything. After a few months of this my wife confessed to seeing another man. She described him as older, handsome and a great listener. I surprisingly took this well. I asked calmly a lot of questions. Most of which she would answer, some she wouldnt. She ended the conversation (she ended the conversation) by saying “if you dont straighten up and get your shit together Im going to keep seeing him!” So for the next few weeks things were tense. I tried to be more attentive when I was home. A few weeks later she said shed stop seeing him.

Fast forward a couple of months and we are doing better. Maybe even good. We head out to dinner with some friends (3 couples). After dinner we are sitting around, guys w guys and girls with girls. I excuse myself to use the bathroom and at the bathroom I run into Kathy one of the ladies we are out with. She say “how are things? Natalie was telling me about whats been happening. Shes telling us right now that she has stopped seeing Dave.” This is actually the first time I learned his name. Before my wife wouldnt tell me in fear I might do something. I look at her somewhat dumbfounded and say “Oh she told you?” Long story short not only did she tell her, shes been telling her about ever since it started!! Like before my wife and Dave were emotionally connected. I was pissed.

Come to find out not only had she told Kathy, she blabbed to all of her gfs. Who in turn told their husbands. My friends.

So not only was my wife having an emotional affair, she was blabbing it to all of her friends who told their husbands. Now everyone knows that my wife went out with another man.

Why do women talk soooo fucking much!

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Relationships December 04, 2017 at 12:00 am 0 0