I've been with my husband for 18 years most of those 18 years on and off with the variety of other men also. I've always enjoyed a variety in my sex life and never could be monogamous for very longtime. My husband never dealt with learning about my cheating after, often long after. He then admitted to me at one point of 10 years ago it it was a turn on in a way for him to hear about the times I had cheated on him. We had fantasies during sex of other men. I enjoyed those thoughts and soon we were doing threesomes with a few guys we were friends with.
It took nearly ten years though to get completely comfortable openly telling him I'd prefer fucking someone else then freely enjoy having sex in front of my husband. Mainly I think because we have wonderful sex. Though having the empowerment to decide I'd like something else, I can. That he gets off knowing brings a whole new dimension to our sex life.
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Sex December 22, 2014 at 12:00 am
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