My best friend since JR High is Sam (Samantha) and we are super close. Last weekend she and her husband came over for a BBQ and a swim. We had a great time and felt everything was going great. Sam asked if I could talk to her in private. We went into the Den and closed the door. She broke down in tears before she said a word. I was horrified and all kinds of things went through my mind. Finally she composed her self and told me what was going on. Her husband wants her to join some kind of couples club that meets once a month to video members having sex with other members. They have group sex and all kinds of things. She confessed they have been doing a 3some with his best friend for 6 months and she has been videoed doing him by her husband who posted it on a porn site. She is scared to death this is getting out of hand and asked me (us) to join them. I was blown away. Had no idea this was going on. I told her that was something we would have to talk over. The truth is it is not even close to being an option for us. Neither one of us want to be shared.
JeniferRelationships November 14, 2018 at 12:25 pm
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The crying seems to be just an argument to press you into de group. It is up to you but I don't think you like that. Politely go away from her. Bobby 8 years ago
People don't know what actually goes on behind closed doors. Wife and I live in an ultra conservative religious town and work in the public sector. Behind our house door is a couple that lives nude, members of a nudist club, vaca to nudist destinations and host nude parties with friends. It's all so natural for us and no big deal where as we would get run out of town and business by the general public.
As far as you joining your friends I have been around a lot of swingers ect. I have seen it go well for some and it wrecked some relationships. Unexpected emotions pop up, jealousy, regret, blame to name a few. Think this decision out very carefully. anonymous 8 years ago
Your friend is being abused by her husband and is seeking help. Help her see a professional. anonymous 8 years ago
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