To begin—married woman almost 40 years old with two teenage children ( boy and girl) married 17 years. I am a big girl. Not fat but tall 5’11” 155lbs long legs smaller boobs my measurements are 36c 26 38. I have dark hair to my shoulders with expressive hazel eyes. For those that are inclined to be curious about my past. I lost my virginity at 16 to my boyfriend of over a year. He promptly dumped me after getting laid. I had two other guys in High School and one guy in college before I met my husband. Since we have been together I have been completely faithful (until now).
I just don’t know what happened exactly but my coworker just started flirting with me out of nowhere ( we have worked together for over three years) and one Friday two months ago asked me to have a drink with him. My husband was on a business trip and not coming home until Saturday evening. I had a couple of drinks and we flirted and the next thing I knew I was doing him in the car in the parking garage.
We have hooked up 6 times since then and I feel so guilty. My husband doesn’t deserve what I am doing him and my kids certainly don’t either.
MandyRelationships January 18, 2026 at 2:59 pm00
So put an end to it and keep your mouth shut. Donnald 3 months ago
Somewhat similar to a position I found myself in not terribly long ago. I asked myself why I was cheating and my honest answer was my husband had lost his appeal to me. He was no longer romantic. He just didn’t treat me like his lover anymore. I was like hired help. You might ask yourself if the reason you are screwing that guy is because he treats you better than your husband does Angie 3 months ago
How old is your lover? How do you compare them in bed? Dicks sizes? Ramón 3 months ago
He is 34 and single not in a relationship. He is very accomplished in bed. He is a little smaller than my husband. My husband is bigger than most guys from my experience. Put it this way—no way any woman would want him to have him do anal on her Mandy 2 months ago
Mandy
I can relate to what you are saying. I decided that I was jeopardizing our marriage and my kids futures. It took me almost a year to end it and my husband never had a clue what had been going on. I was absolutely miserable at first without my lover. Eventually I got over him and my relationship with my husband started to improve. Now 6 years later the kids are out of the house and we have a life together. My advice is to look very closely at what you want your future to be. Everyone has a different solution to their problems so I pray you find yours.
PS. My lover was my boss and he was also married so I think I saved two marriages. Been There 2 months ago
Talk to some professional. You are headed for trouble now. Ben 2 months ago
Have a last sex session and good by. Maybe you can hook up; nce in a while Bob 2 months ago
How many guys have you had sex with? At age did you start? Gustav 2 months ago
Gustav
Did you read my posted confession? The answers are in there. Mandy 2 months ago
Mandy
Out of the blue he just started flirting??? Are you sure?? Did you do something different? Way you dress? Things you say to him? Something sexual happen in the work environment? Seems strange the way it happened Cathy 2 months ago
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Donnald 3 months ago
Angie 3 months ago
Ramón 3 months ago
Mandy 2 months ago
I can relate to what you are saying. I decided that I was jeopardizing our marriage and my kids futures. It took me almost a year to end it and my husband never had a clue what had been going on. I was absolutely miserable at first without my lover. Eventually I got over him and my relationship with my husband started to improve. Now 6 years later the kids are out of the house and we have a life together. My advice is to look very closely at what you want your future to be. Everyone has a different solution to their problems so I pray you find yours.
PS. My lover was my boss and he was also married so I think I saved two marriages.
Been There 2 months ago
Ben 2 months ago
Bob 2 months ago
Gustav 2 months ago
Did you read my posted confession? The answers are in there.
Mandy 2 months ago
Out of the blue he just started flirting??? Are you sure?? Did you do something different? Way you dress? Things you say to him? Something sexual happen in the work environment? Seems strange the way it happened
Cathy 2 months ago