Need Feedback is Wife having Lesbian Affair

Long story short, a couple of years back, I walked in on my wife getting freaky with another woman… her cousins wife no less! Of course I was upset and more than anything shocked. I would have actually been cool with it if I was consulted and included in her supposedly newfound interested in being sexual with another woman. She claims that this incident just happened because they had both drank too much and she (being a former massage therapist) was massaging her and it just led to where it did. She said she has no intention of being with another woman again or anything like that… blah blah blah.

Anyway, fast forward to the present. My wife is in an intense grad program and she has made a friend in class who is now her study partner and they talk and text all the time. At first, it seemed like something great for her (and still feel that way), since my wife has no real friends and has never had a ‘best friend since Ive met her. Now, at least she has someone to study with and chat with which is a good thing.

However,… my mind starts wandering to the salacious, knowing her past. Not only are they always texting and all that, but they have actually had two instances where they spent the night together, supposedly as friends and study partners only. The first time, I was away on a business trip and my wife said she was afraid being home along so she invited her friend. I actually tried to set up a hidden cam, but it failed to records key times! The second time, her friend got a hotel room so they could study for finals all day and night. Im sure they do all they claim… but part of me wonders if there is something else to their relationship. Interestingly, her friend just recently shaved her head, which I know its a generalization and stereotype, but, feel kinda like a lesbian thing to do for a lady, no? Wife claims friend is doing it more like a start over spiritual thing (she divorced a couple of years ago; has two kids).

Am I reading too much into this? Would like feedback from other married people, especially if you have been in a similar situation. thanks

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anonymous Relationships April 17, 2016 at 12:00 am 0 2