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Broken Heart Broken Marriage Broken Friendship

Broken Heart Broken Marriage Broken Friendship

I came home from work yesterday because my allergies are killing me. I was surprised to see my husband’s car in the garage. I walked into the kitchen and looked into the family room. I screamed as there he was nude with his Dick in my very best friend. They both tried to say it was the first time but after a lot of yelling,tears and threatening it came out it had been going on for five moths. I am so heartbroken I don’t know what to do. I kicked him out for now and I suppose I should file for a legal separation. We have two children who aren’t old enough to understand what is going on. My God how could they do this to our family. She is like a sister to me and he was the love of my life. I don’t know if I can ever get over the hurt I am feeling.
Sandy Relationships April 02, 2019 at 5:15 pm 0
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If your best friend is married tell her husband. Majority of the time marriages are never the same after an affair and a miserable way to live if the person is taken back. Don't take him back for the lame reason so often used which is "for the kids." Second popular reason is for his income. There are millions of single parents so it can be done. An affair is bad enough but with your dear friend is even lower. Please go to speak with a professional to help you sort the whirlwind thoughts.
anonymous 5 years ago
I was in almost the exact position you are in 9 years ago. I divorced him and her husband divorced her. The two of them got married with in a year. I struggled both mentally and financially for a couple of years. Then it all kind of turned around and I am remarried and very happy. I would not want to go thru it again but I did learn a lot about myself during that time. Best of luck to you.
Jan 5 years ago
it happens a lot because people get involved with those close to them: sisters in law, wive friends, neighbors, work mates, etc move on...good luck...
jim 5 years ago
Sandy
When you feel up to it please post what is going on with you. Be Strong.
Jack 5 years ago
I am so stressed. I have everyone telling me what I should do. My parents,his parents,my brother and sister. All my friends know what happened and they all want to give me advice. My husband is begging to let him come home,the kids are upset and acting out. My best friend in the whole world had her husband forgive her and she acts like I am being a bitch. No end in sight. I need to rest more worry less and find out what I want.
Sandy 5 years ago
OK. Fill your days with the routine chores. Keep you mind busy with daily stuff. The solution will probably come up by itself at some point. At lat it ha worked for me in complex life challenges.
jim 5 years ago
We saw a marriage counselor and family therapist after four weeks of pure hell. Fighting,name calling, pure hatred for each other. It made things a little better and with work we are back together and things are improving. Not sure what the best thing is but for now maybe trying to make it work is better than throwing it all away
Deb 5 years ago
My wife caught me messing around with a coworker. She tried to forgive me and I did stop messing around. It was two years of torture living with the constant reliving and doubt. The constant questions and suspicion. In the end we divorced and are now both much happier. It was my fault but in the end it was more than either of us could get beyond
Darin 5 years ago
I'm truly sorry you're heart is hurting from this, i really hope you heal soon and you get with someone that acctually tressures you and respects you the way you deserve, i would never forgive them for something like that, i wont tell you what to do but in my most honest opinion, i think you have to respect yourself enough to move on with your life and your kids, remember that they will be affected no matter what but in this situation you gotta put yourself first.
Stacey 5 years ago
I was the other woman three years ago. Didn’t get caught in the act but she figured it out and came to my door. I had known him in college and honestly believed him when he told me he was divorced. I ended it immediately and walked away with my dignity bruised. She did end up divorcing him and she and I are now friends.
Samantha 5 years ago
It has been a month and things are not very good. I have filed for divorce. He is fighting everything I want to do and has been very hard to deal with or talk to. I am finding out just how ugly things can get in a relationship when this kind of thing happens. Thanks for all your comments
Sandy 5 years ago
Sandy
I feel sorry for you and I am praying every night that things will get better. I work in a law office but I am just one of the secretaries. I have seen many ugly divorces and my advice to you is to make him hurt as much financially as you can as quickly as you can. Most guys that I see that are cheaters are to into themselves to see the pain they cause. Hit him hard and hit him often. It isn’t fun but the money is the key to getting what you need.
Janice 5 years ago
Sandy are you ok?? Things getting better? What does your future look like now?
Jack 5 years ago
Thanks for asking about us. We are treading water and trying to remain normal. My other half is a pain in the ass and he has been saying terrible things about me to anyone that will listen. Our next court date is a week from this Friday. I hope we can get things settled and move on.
Sandy 5 years ago
I am not a free woman yet but much closer after yesterday. I am so glad to have that behind me.
Sandy 5 years ago
Sandy
How are you doing. What’s going on in your life?
Jack 5 years ago
My soon to be in-laws came over on Monday and asked me to drop the divorce proceedings. They don’t want the kids to be raised in a split home. They offered me a $10,000 cash settlement to call it all off. I asked them very politely to leave. They got all huffy and called me a home wrecker. What a joke!!!!
Sandy 5 years ago
I am sorry to hear of your long ordeal and difficult circumstances. Just remember it was him that brought this all on.
Danny 5 years ago
Our divorce will be final on August 6th and I feel both glad and sad. I never wanted things to end between us and certainly not like they have. I will move on eventually and make a new life for myself. I will be older,wiser and more cautious for sure. Thanks to all for your concern and encouragement.
Sandy 5 years ago
It is over and I am sad for the love that was lost. The future is uncertain and my plans are equally uncertain. Today my life is started anew.
Sandy 5 years ago
How is your sex life???
Al 5 years ago
It sucks. I have a job and two kids. That takes up most of my time —-that and a little time sleeping
Sandy 5 years ago
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