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[1871] Step Daughter

I met her mother at work. we were just friends at first she told me she had 3 kids 2 girls and a boy. I wasn't to thrilled to hear that because I had already raised my kids and didn't care to raise more. But then she to me home and introduced me to her kids and didn't want any part of it. However the more I hung around the closer I got with her and her children especially the youngest girl. She was a rough looking tomboy type but she was kind to me. I guess I fell in love with their mother and we eventuailly got married. Soon after the wedding she flip flopped on me and became mean and evil. I could not believe how she had changed.

My wife enrolled in school and worked full time and never was home. During this time my step daughter and I talked alot and just became very close. She got to where she would never leave my side. She followed me everywhere. I loved her like she was my own.

She has become a beautiful teenager now. Very very shapely to say the least. She is a far cry from the little tom boy I helped raise. She started walking around the house with only a towel on after taking a shower. She really makes me feel aroused. I try and keep myself from thinking like this but she is just too much. She loves to wrestle me so she can spread her legs and press her clit on my back or any where she can get pressure. I realized what she was doing and stopped wrestling around with her.

I think I miss the attention from her because I think I a falling in love with my step daughter. How could I let this happen. I can't get her out of my head. I don't want to be in love with her but I am. I guess it's easy when my wife pays no attention to me. No sex, no hug, no nothing. But my step daughter, she hugs me everyday and I feel so much love coming from her. She trust me with her every secret and I trust her also. She is my friend when I am lonely. I know nothing will ever come of this because I am quite older than she plus I am married to her mother, whom she can't bare to be around when I'm not home. I know she told me so.

I need help getting her out of my mind. I love her more than I have ever loved anyone and I'm scared. I am not attracted to 14 year old girls at all. It's just her. I can't imagine feeling this way about anybody else. Please somebody help me get over her.

Posted 3 years ago

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  • You need to get help asap, that is not normal to be attached to a 14 yr old girl. If you really love this girl you would go get help before something happens between you and her. She may like the attention from you, if you do anything sexual with this girl you will ruin the rest of her life. Please get help immediately! Don't ruin this girls life because you don't know how to control yourself, or you are to selfish to get help before you hurt her.
    Posted 3 years ago
  • I would never hurt her. Never ever. I love her. If you love someone you wouldn't be selfish and forget about the conequences of such a think. I had plenty of chances because she literally tried to give herself to me. But I resisted and ended the onslaught of sexual advances she has made. I new that in her mind she just wanted to do it then. But she would regret it after she has grown up. Now simce I rejected her she thinls she is in love with a girl. Now that is something as a step dad that I totally hate. She thinks guys are not attracted to her. I hate lesbian activity. Especially if it my step daughter. I want her to stop searching for love in all the wrong places. I must talk to her and soon.
    Posted 3 years ago
  • You do need to get yourself some help. Stay away from your stepdaughter before you try something with her. You may need attention from a woman, you DON'T need attention from a 14 yr old girl, you need to get away from her altogether. Don't ruin this girls life because you don't know how to control yourself. When I was younger older man couldn't control himself and because of him the rest of my life will never be the same. Please for her sake GET HELP!!
    Posted 3 years ago
  • Ok, now, I really think it's not normal. But wow, I love your story, even if it was posted 2 years ago, I really love my step-brother and we are deeply in love, and we are thinking of running away someday. The fact that your wife don't pay atenttion to you, it makes the story have more sense. I'll love to hear what happened after this. Bye, good luck.

    -A step-daughter
    Posted 4 months ago
  • Ok, now, I really think it's not normal. But wow, I love your story, even if it was posted 2 years ago, I really love my step-brother and we are deeply in love, and we are thinking of running away someday. The fact that your wife don't pay atenttion to you, it makes the story have more sense. I'll love to hear what happened after this. Bye, good luck.

    -A step-daughter
    Posted 4 months ago
  • Ok, now, I really think it's not normal. But wow, I love your story, even if it was posted 2 years ago, I really love my step-brother and we are deeply in love, and we are thinking of running away someday. The fact that your wife don't pay atenttion to you, it makes the story have more sense. I'll love to hear what happened after this. Bye, good luck.

    -A step-daughter
    Posted 4 months ago
  • All older men say like that 'It's just her, I'm not attracted to 14-year-olds, blah blah blah. Since your wife doesn't cater to you emotionally and physically you turned to your stepdaughter. You're attracted only to her because she the only teen girl living with you. If it wasn't her, it would have been someone else.
    You badmouthe her mother, encourage her inappropriate clothing and behaviour and her anger for her mother.
    While her mother was away you overstepped the boundaries and she behaved inappropriately because she is confused and messed up. Instead of crying on her shoulder you should have been a strong husband and stepfather, but you're obsessed with your own needs.
    This girl needs a parent's love and support, and some not old needy man aka pseudofather. She needs to date and discover herself with someone adequate and age-appropriate. I'm glad that you're quite older otherwise you would misconcept her and take her opportunity to date and marry someone else.
    Older men must stop exploiting young girls.

    Posted 2 months ago
  • She needs a mother's and father's love and support.
    Posted 2 months ago
  • I had an unofficial stepdaughter at home who was already of legal age and a similar situation developed. Unfortunately I did not wisely set boundaries and allowed her to rub me when she asked if she could and at a later stage I did oral sex on her. We also hugged and kissed a lot. Then our feelings of guilt took over and we stopped the affair although we remained very close and still have very warm feelings for each other. Now many years later having gone through therapy for the effect of emotional neglect and childhood abuse by my mum I came to realize that basically my stepdaughter and I were re-enacting my own abuse. We have talked about it a lot and things are fine between us but it does have a negative effect on her marriage as she still struggles to be emotionally close with her husband as a result of our inappropriate relationship.
    Posted 1 week ago
  • It happens fairly often, many girls at some point during their teen years develop a crush on their father. Since a "step" isn't blood relation, that crush isn't kept in check and its not necessarily the step-dad's fault. Just a normal progression from admiration. It is said that most women marry someone who, in their eyes, greatly reflects the the good they see in their father. The knee jerk reaction is obviously to stop her advances and turn the girl away (the rejection of course could devastate her esteem). There is another downside to rejecting her. Many of these girls will simply turn their attention to a different (possibly dangerous) older man. Also because of the step-dad's rejection she may keep it hidden till it is too late.
    The OP is obviously not some pedophile sexual predator otherwise he wouldn't be asking how to get her off his mind. So spitting out aggressive comments because of your own unresolved baggage is inappropriate.
    My advice to others in this situation is use the law for a barrier as to "why not". Hold her at bay till she has a chance to exhibit further behaviors, either a more normal sexual attraction to people near her age or older men. Keep the lines of communication and closeness open. Don't interfere or guide her away from dating people her own age, encourage it.
    WAIT until she is legal.If she shows no interest in guys her age and you really are in love with her go for it.
    Posted 1 week ago

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